This Season, This Year
As I write this, I’m days away from celebrating my birthday. This year has flown by. In this season, I’ve flourished - becoming more grounded, softening my heart from old hurts and behaviours that never truly reflected who I am. If I’m honest, I’ve always been quick to hide from stepping fully into who God made me to be. I’ve been timid, reserved, protective of myself against a world that can be cruel. I’ve also experienced so much beauty in recent years, especially in my late twenties. I’ve done incredible things too. I remind myself often that I’m living an answered prayer.
As I unpack my learnings, I’m proud of how far I’ve come. When people read this back, I hope it resonates with anyone in a similar season. That’s why Our Season exists. The community I’m building needs to know what it feels like to navigate the shifts and joys of life, together, amongst like-minded individuals.
This article is part one of a growing list - because growth doesn’t end here.
THE LESSONS
It’s okay for my timeline to look different
I’ve always dreamed of what I thought life would look like, and I’ve piled pressure on myself to make it happen. The world is different now than it was when my parents were my age. God has a different plan for me and I’m doing incredible things already. What I desire and pray for will come in its time.
Health is wealth
I have no notes. I’ll share more in a different piece. But after over ten years of navigating health challenges, I know nothing is worth more than my wellbeing. Life is richer when your health is top tier. I don’t need to keep up with anyone. Protecting my peace is my top priority.
Some friendships are seasonal
I’m grateful for the exceptional people in my life. I’ve wrestled with knowing who’s truly for me and whether anyone can mirror the emotions and investment I’ve pour into friendships. The truth is… it’s not always possible. Friendship doesn’t have to be reciprocal in every way. What matters is trusting my instincts, especially when people don’t show up. Life is too short to overthink who’s really there.
I’ve been blessed to meet some beautiful people over the past few years, and I thank God they remain in my life. I’ve prayed about friendship and I trust that God will continue to show me who is meant for me. It’s okay to let go, even when it stings.
I can begin again
The Bible says: “I am the true vine, and my Father is the gardener. He cuts off every branch in me that bears no fruit, while every branch that does bear fruit he prunes so that it will be even more fruitful.” – John 15:1-2 NIV.
It’s deeper than that - I must remain in Christ to bear more fruit. The Lord continues to work in me. I’ve seen how I can start again - in business, in friendship, in love, and in life. From the day I decided to redo my college education at 18, I’ve carried this truth. Starting over can be the best decision you’ll ever make.
Rest is a non-negotiable
May I continue to know that I can rest on demand. Burnout taught me that the hard way over the years through education and working life. I’m thankful for being aware of this requirement, and it takes a lot for me to compromise on my rest and DND weekends.
Since turning 30, I can see the changes in me. My introspection runs deep and the capacity of love I have grows.
In due time, I will revisit this series - and only God knows is in store for me. As I step into this new season, I know there’s still so much to learn and much more in becoming. I will honour these lessons and be open to all that will unfold in time.
With so much love,
M x
Pause & Reflect
Write a letter to your younger self, what would you want them to know?
What lessons do I want to carry into my next chapter of life?
What is life teaching me in this season and how is it shaping me?
